OK, just a warning, this is a bit of a rant… You’ve been warned!
So I get really irritated with certain family members don’t give a shit about what’s going in everyone else’s life, but want you to be involved into theirs (when they feel like it).
For example, when my cat was put down, did this family member call me after finding out? No. They called someone else in my family to ask what was going on. They eventually called me about it after being told to call me and talk to me about it.
They have ZERO idea on what’s going on in my life. They have ZERO idea that I almost quit the family business. They have ZERO idea of ANYTHING going on in my personal life because THEY DON’T GIVE A FUCK. They only live in their bubble, and when they want to talk to you they’ll reach out. If you call or try to contact them, it’s either short answer or no response. But fuck, if they call you or try to contact you, you better put everything down and answer it.
I’m so sick and tired of it. And it’s not just me that they treat like that, it’s my parents that I get super worked up about. I hope they get some sense knocked into them and realize what they are coming off as to people. It’s not right.